"The pure, simple truth is that sparks do fade, but they are supposed to fade. It’s the flame in your marriage that drives your relationship forward and ensures that your path is lit in front of you. So discover what kind of flame you have, find what it takes to keep that flame burning and use help to re-light the fire when it grows dim. Because when you’re marriage is healthy and happy, you glow from the inside out."
I read this on the swmag blog a week or so ago. It's about keeping the sparks alive, or rather keeping the fire burning, after you're married. Full of wisdom. Check it out.